I know that we are not the only parents who feel like they are constantly battling between creating quality family time together with phone screen time.
After speaking to some of my other fellow parent friends I have found that it has become increasingly common for people to feel like they are constantly connected to their phone and the rest of the world through social media and the internet.
This constant connection can be a HUGE distraction and can really make it difficult for families to truly spend quality time together.
Now, there are many approaches that families can take when it comes to building quality family time together. What worked for us and what we are excited to share with you is our #NoPhoneZone Challenge!
Download our #NoPhoneZone Challenge Resource here!
What is the No Phone Zone Challenge?
The no phone zone challenge is basically an area in your home where being on a phone is NOT allowed, at all, aside from real emergencies, of course. The point isn’t to be super strict, or make it unenjoyable but to prevent mindless scrolling. For example, your family could designate the dinner table as their #NoPhoneZone, where everyone is expected to put their phones away during meal times. Our no phone zone was our kitchen and family room area.
A lot of the time we think that when we are on our phones we can also be present with our family when in reality we are not. Our no-phone zone challenge concept is simple, if you want to be on your phone, you have to leave the no-phone zone, that way you AND the family are fully aware that you are not present.
Why does the No Phone Zone Challenge create Quality Family Time?
This family challenge that we created has truly been the only screen time success we have had! We believe it creates a more focused and present atmosphere during our family meals, and movie times and overall it encourages conversation and connection.
Tips On Getting Your Family On Board with the No Phone Zone Challenge
Communicate With Your Family
Part of building a strong foundation to create quality family time is healthy communication. Make sure to talk with your family about why you want to take away phones and how it will benefit everyone. Explain the benefits of having quality time together and how it can strengthen family bonds.
Make it FUN!!
We never eat out so to get our kids on board I promised to pick up their favorite take out 3x the first week. We also came up with a list of shows we all enjoyed (them more than us), games we liked to play together (JackBox.tv is always a hit!), I bought a few fun things for dessert and we awarded a prize to the person with the lowest screen time at the end of the week. Figure out what might motivate your family and get them excited and this challenge will be more successful and enjoyable for everyone!
Set Clear Expectations
Make sure that when you present this to your family, you have all the designated areas and rules planned out. You might also want to allow the family to vote together on where they think should be the no phone zone. By the end of your family meeting, you want to make sure you have clear rules and expectations that the entire family agrees on. *Some of the teens’ ideas included the ability to chuck a nerf ball at anyone caught mindlessly scrolling in our #NoPhoneZone- ha! Again, keep it fun and do what works for you and your fam!
Offer Alternative Activities
Have a variety of activities and hobbies available for your family to do together during phone-free times. This can help make the transition to being without phones easier and more enjoyable. If you haven’t checked out some our fun chore challenges, you should check out our TikTok! Check out our favorite tv shows and movies here. Or our favorite family games here.
It’s important to be flexible and open to adjusting the rules as needed. If something isn’t working, be willing to make changes and find a solution that works for your family. Again, the point is to STOP the mindless scrolling and work on building stronger bonds as a family. These bonds will take time, but forward progress is the goal.
Lead By Example
If you want your family to disconnect from their phones and build quality family time together, it’s important to model this behavior yourself. Put your own phone away and show your family that it’s possible to have a good time without being constantly connected.
What do you need for No Phone Challenge?
- Designated Area
- Our Printable Challenge Packet to review resources. Download it here!
- Review our Favorite Family Movies and TV Shows Article.
- Review our Favorite Family Board Games Article.
Shop and Prep for the #NoPhoneZone Challenge!
Overall Benefits to the #NoPhoneZone Challenge
Stopping the mindless scrolling in your home can be a powerful way to create more quality time together. It can help families disconnect from the outside world and focus on each other, strengthening their bonds and deepening their connections. While it may be a difficult adjustment at first, the long-term benefits for families can be well worth the effort.
Since starting our first #NoPhoneZone challenge at the beginning of 2022 my family has grown closer, we enjoy phone-free dinners (aside from Mike’s nightly questions- but are all engaging and having fun so that doesn’t count), and the kids request to play games together now after dinner. Plus, it’s helped me and Mike with our marriage as well. It’s honestly one of the best things I have implemented which is why I am so excited to share it with you.
Let us know in the comments below if you are joining our #NoPhoneZone Challenge!
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Ashley Queen says
Love this idea. I am a single mom of two boys an I need to do this to be more attentive an less distraction. I think this will be really good for my little family. Thank you for the idea
Mama Munchkin says
Yay!! So happy to have you join us!!
Definitely joining! So far our kids are little and don’t have phones but this would really benefit my husband and I. So often we find ourselves together but apart when each one of us is head down mindlessly scrolling on our phones.
Mama Munchkin says
Yes, it’s definitely been great for our marriage as well. And, avoids the mom guilt I would feel when I would catch myself missing out on something cute that Jack was doing bc I was mindlessly scrolling. Livvy was always good about calling me out- ha!
Definitely joining! For me especially to be more present 🤪
Mama Munchkin says
So excited that you will be joining us! This makes my day!
Liz Murphy says
Ashlee Miller says
I struggle to get everyone to put their phones down but this just makes sense. In a common space, we should be engaging! I love having just a designated spot where togetherness is encouraged. It’s not saying no to the phone, just no if you’re going to be in THIS spot 💜 so simple, so genius! We will be joining!
Jenny Desmond says
Definitely going to try this! I definitely find myself mindlessly scrolling as well. Thank you for the boost we need to set this in motion!
Love this idea!! We’ll definitely give it a go!
Amanda Green says
Definitely going to be doing this. One place we already do this is at the dinner table and when we get to go out to dinner. It has been amazing. I love the idea of zones ♥️
Yes! We are joining. Both my husband and I are also constantly mindlessly scrolling. This is such a great idea! Thank you!
Yes I’m a mom of two on my own and this is extremely important to be present with eachother & family time is extremely important. Yes I joined it and the girls and I are doing very well. I appreciate this !💜😭🙏
Jamaica Jones says
Yes, I did this weekend!! Thank you I will join!!
Glad I catched it as its start ! I totally doing this challenge with my family. Excellent idea 🤩
Awesome! Excited to see what you think of it!
Awesome! Excited to have you!
Sherry Neky says
100% on board!!
Great! We look forward to hearing how it goes!